最近上了一堂公司所提供的 Analytical &;
Creative Thinking Program，借此记录重点与分享个人心得，愿正在阅读此文的你也有所获。
来自英国的导师，教法果然与本地的导师有所不同。老外推崇双向交流，鼓励多发问和发言。印象中，这是我职业生涯中，第一次有幸参与由老外所授教的课程。
社交关系里，我们免不了会遇上一些难缠或麻烦的人 (difficult
person) 。怎么样的人才会被标签为“难缠”呢？
有人回答，情绪化者，自私者和固执等人是他们眼中的麻烦人。专家则把“举凡与我意见不同者”（Different goal/thinking）归类为麻烦人。
可不是吗？凡事岂能尽如人意，你我的生活背景有别，目标不同，自然看法也不一致，当各自坚持立场时，难免会把对方认定为怪人。
我们都很习惯地重复做着某一些事，某些决定，跟同样的朋友说话和吃饭，甚至拥有一成不变的看法。我们把自己所认为对的事情变成“规矩”。（Our
belief system creates the rules）。
倘若你不依着我的想法进行，那便是犯了我的大忌。
一再重复做同样的事情，造就我们不习惯接受改变，简直导致目光狭窄，食古不化。
改变，顾名思义，要改了才能变。上班时，不妨尝试改道而行。每天，不妨尝试做一件不同的事或你所抗拒的事；认识一个新朋友；跟某个点头之交的朋友说说话。。。。。。
左脑型思维者
Vs 右脑型思维者
你是属于那种类型？测试题。
1. 1. A) It’s fun to take risks.
B) I have fun without taking risks.
2. 2. A) I look
for new ways to do old jobs.
B) When one way works well, I don’t change
it.
3. 3. A) I begin many jobs that I never finish.
B) I finish a job before starting a new
one.
4. 4. A) I’m not very imaginative in my work.
B) I use my imagination in everything I do.
5.
5. A) I can
analyze what is going to happen next.
B) I
can sense what is going to happen next.
6. 6. A) I try
to find the one best way to solve a problem.
B) I
try to find different answers to problems.
7. 7.A) My thinking is like pictures going through my
head.
B) My thinking is like words going through
my head.
8. 8. A) I agree with new ideas before other people
do.
B) I question new ideas more than other
people do.
9. 9. A) other people don’t understand how I organize
things.
B) other people think I organize well.
110.
A) I have good self-discipline.
B) I usually act on mu feelings.
111.
A) I plan time for doing my work.
B) I don’t think about the time when I
work.
112.
A) with a hard decision, I choose what I know is
right.
B) with a hard decision, I choose what I
feel is right.
113. A) I do easy things first and important things
later.
B) I do the important things first and the
easy things later.
114.
A) Sometimes in a new situation, I have too many
ideas.
B) Sometimes in a new situation, I don’t
have any ideas.
115..
A) I have to have a lot of change and variety in
my life.
B) I have to have an orderly and
well-planned life.
116.
A) I know I’m right, because I have good
reasons.
B) I know I’m right, even without good
reasons.
117.
A) I spread my work evenly over the time I have.
B) I prefer to do my work at the last
mitues.
118.
A) I keep everything in a particular place.
B) Where I keep things depends on what I’m
doing.
119.
A) I have to make my own plans.
B) I can follow anyone’s plans.
220.
A) I am a very flexible and unpredictable
person.
B) I am a consistent and stable person.
221.
A) With a new task, I want to find my own way of
doing it.
B) With a new task, I want to be told the
best way to it.
计分：
Answer A, 1% for Question 1,2,3,7,8,9,13,14,15,19,20,21
Answer B, 1% for Question 4,5,6,10,11,12,16,17,18
0%-4% : Strong left brained.
5%-8% : moderate left
9%-13% : middle brain
14%-16%: moderate right
17%-21% : Strong right.
左脑型思维者：
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Prefer to work alone.
-
Read independently and incorporate research into
their paper.
-
Like to research until they have formulated and
idea.
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Favor a quiet environment.
-
Difficult with spatial awareness.
-
Perfectionism
-
Afraid to fail
右脑型思维者：
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Prefer to work in groups.
-
Like creative things, brainstorm, use visions
and hands.
-
Prefer design than write.
-
Find it more challenging to process info
verbally.
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Good at spatial awareness.
-
Good at multi-tasking.
此测试只是辅助你更了解自己的优缺点，它也只能反映你目前的状态。 目前的我，是个中等左脑性思维者。导师表示，多反问一些正面且建设性的问题有助于让思维转型。
反问，是一门学问。从这次的课，我意识到自己是个不懂得发问的人。更糟的是，我只是一个只会问“为什么”的人。这堂课，导师主讲的恰恰是“不要问为什么？”
待续。。。。。。。。
