20.8.13

创意思考

最近上了一堂公司所提供的 Analytical &; Creative Thinking Program,借此记录重点与分享个人心得,愿正在阅读此文的你也有所获。

来自英国的导师,教法果然与本地的导师有所不同。老外推崇双向交流,鼓励多发问和发言。印象中,这是我职业生涯中,第一次有幸参与由老外所授教的课程。

社交关系里,我们免不了会遇上一些难缠或麻烦的人 (difficult person) 。怎么样的人才会被标签为“难缠”呢?

有人回答,情绪化者,自私者和固执等人是他们眼中的麻烦人。专家则把“举凡与我意见不同者”(Different goal/thinking)归类为麻烦人。

可不是吗?凡事岂能尽如人意,你我的生活背景有别,目标不同,自然看法也不一致,当各自坚持立场时,难免会把对方认定为怪人。

我们都很习惯地重复做着某一些事,某些决定,跟同样的朋友说话和吃饭,甚至拥有一成不变的看法。我们把自己所认为对的事情变成“规矩”。(Our belief system creates the rules)。

倘若你不依着我的想法进行,那便是犯了我的大忌。

一再重复做同样的事情,造就我们不习惯接受改变,简直导致目光狭窄,食古不化。

改变,顾名思义,要改了才能变。上班时,不妨尝试改道而行。每天,不妨尝试做一件不同的事或你所抗拒的事;认识一个新朋友;跟某个点头之交的朋友说说话。。。。。。

左脑型思维者 Vs 右脑型思维者

你是属于那种类型?测试题。

1.      1.  A) It’s fun to take risks.
B) I have fun without taking risks.

2.      2.  A) I look for new ways to do old jobs.
B) When one way works well, I don’t change it.

3.       3. A) I begin many jobs that I never finish.
B) I finish a job before starting a new one.

4.       4. A) I’m not very imaginative in my work.
B) I use my imagination in everything I do.

5.        5. A) I can analyze what is going to happen next.
     B) I can sense what is going to happen next.

6.      6.  A) I try to find the one best way to solve a problem.
 B) I try to find different answers to problems.

7.       7.A) My thinking is like pictures going through my head.
B) My thinking is like words going through my head.

8.       8. A) I agree with new ideas before other people do.
B) I question new ideas more than other people do.

9.       9. A) other people don’t understand how I organize things.
B) other people think I organize well.

110.   A) I have good self-discipline.
B) I usually act on mu feelings.

111.   A) I plan time for doing my work.
B) I don’t think about the time when I work.

112.   A) with a hard decision, I choose what I know is right.
B) with a hard decision, I choose what I feel is right.

113.   A) I do easy things first and important things later.
B) I do the important things first and the easy things later.

114.   A) Sometimes in a new situation, I have too many ideas.
B) Sometimes in a new situation, I don’t have any ideas.

115..   A) I have to have a lot of change and variety in my life.
B) I have to have an orderly and well-planned life.

116.   A) I know I’m right, because I have good reasons.
B) I know I’m right, even without good reasons.

117.   A) I spread my work evenly over the time I have.
B) I prefer to do my work at the last mitues.

118.   A) I keep everything in a particular place.
B) Where I keep things depends on what I’m doing.

119.   A) I have to make my own plans.
B) I can follow anyone’s plans.

220.   A) I am a very flexible and unpredictable person.
B) I am a consistent and stable person.

221.   A) With a new task, I want to find my own way of doing it.
B) With a new task, I want to be told the best way to it.

计分:
Answer A, 1% for Question 1,2,3,7,8,9,13,14,15,19,20,21
Answer B, 1% for Question 4,5,6,10,11,12,16,17,18

0%-4% : Strong left brained.
5%-8% : moderate left
9%-13% : middle brain
14%-16%: moderate right
17%-21% : Strong right.

左脑型思维者:
-          Prefer to work  alone.
-          Read independently and incorporate research into their paper.
-          Like to research until they have formulated and idea.
-          Favor a quiet environment.
-          Difficult with spatial awareness.   
-          Perfectionism
-          Afraid to fail

右脑型思维者:
-          Prefer to work in groups.
-          Like creative things, brainstorm, use visions and hands.
-          Prefer design than write.
-          Find it more challenging to process info verbally.
-          Good at spatial awareness.
-          Good at multi-tasking.

此测试只是辅助你更了解自己的优缺点,它也只能反映你目前的状态。 目前的我,是个中等左脑性思维者。导师表示,多反问一些正面且建设性的问题有助于让思维转型。

反问,是一门学问。从这次的课,我意识到自己是个不懂得发问的人。更糟的是,我只是一个只会问“为什么”的人。这堂课,导师主讲的恰恰是“不要问为什么?”


待续。。。。。。。。

11 条评论:

cutemum 说...

公司很好呢...有这种課程...我沒有上过...所以才EQIQ皆低...

宅妈 说...

以前我的旧老板很喜欢考我们如果发问
其实问对问题,事情基本上大概都解决了,呵呵~~

XD 说...

可以介绍那家训练公司吗?谢谢。
ZT

Christine 说...

Thank you for sharing...

Onghappyfamilies 说...

我每次上完课,很充电但不持久!

行动难....怕改变.....唉!突破Comfort Zone不容易!

Han 说...

左脑性思维者意味着拥有无限创意?

moonlotus 说...

很认同。
我嫌这种测验法麻烦,不做了。也是一种习惯。
我也爱问为什么。期待下篇。

恩轩至佳 说...

可爱妈,上了之后,也得要常用才有效。我就是少用,所以上了等于没上:-)

宅妈,你的上司很有水准。这次的课程专注于如何发问,要问些什么。。。上了之后,我发现原来自己不懂得如何发问。。

XD, 这是Fire Dragon Coaching.

Christine, Welcome.

BL, 正是知易行难!这次一定要突破自己,半辈子过去了,不想再浪费生命了。。呵呵!

恩轩至佳 说...

韩大人,思维型并不能看出那人是否有创意。从字面上的解释,右脑思维者属于比较灵活性的人。要转型,就多反问。这是导师想传达的讯息。

Han 说...

转型不是那只鸡说的咩?

恩轩至佳 说...

月莲,我也不喜欢做测试。不过,这个只有20题,而且问题简短,所以觉得一试无妨。

韩大人,那鸡说过什么我都不记得了:-)

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